Hello Michael,
the Swedish waterworks formula calculates with a shower time of 5 min. /person with 8 ltr./min.
This is generally accepted and also the basis of our standards.
i.e. 2 persons x 5 min. x 8 ltr. = 80 ltr. a horizontal tank has a draw-off factor of 0.8 due to temperature stratification - vertical 0.9.
desired shower temperature should be 38° (assumption). that results in 100 ltr. storage temperature.
Since the water should be about 60° to be grease-dissolving during washing and to reduce legionella
a storage tank of 56 ltr. with horizontal arrangement results.
chosen tank 50 ltr. at a storage temperature of 66°.
With very hard water, 60° should not be exceeded, otherwise the heating elements will scale heavily. When choosing the tank, you have to see what the manufacturer offers. The electric connection power is usually adjustable from 2 - 4 - 6 kW, whereby I recommend 2 kW. The heating time from 10 to 60 is then about 1.5 hours.
This way 2 people can shower one after the other, with good comfort - I wish you lots of fun and joy.
regards sonniba