Pinkiponk
2022-03-03 08:41:05
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In advance: You are neither gullible nor naive. What is happening to you is what happens to every layperson builder. As non-experts, we assume that "on the construction site" the same rules apply as elsewhere, namely that everyone does their job well and wants to do it well, which from my point of view primarily means also considering the interests of the client, that is the builder. This is often not the case on construction sites, and in my opinion, you can be glad to have already had this experience so early in the building process. My subjective recommendation: Regarding the architect, you should see a lawyer first and get advice on what you really have to pay, initially without legal dispute, so you have a basis for negotiation with the architect. Try to write the payment to the architect off as a learning loss and console yourselves with the fact that you got the plot for free (?).
I also recommend that you start from scratch regarding the house construction. Does it have to be an architect-designed house? If not, I suggest you look around in various show home parks, leaf through catalogs, and see if the architect’s floor plan, if it is perfect for you, can be found somewhere approximately, or if you find another house that you might even like better. Maybe you can also hire an independent construction supervisor from one of the "owners’ interest associations" to help and support you.
You can also come back here in the forum for every single further step until moving in (and afterward :) ) and use the collective intelligence, hear other opinions as well as confirmations.
Afterwards, one is always wiser.
You have made a valuable experience that you would not have been spared anyway. Good that it happened right at the beginning. Now you go on your first house build with alert and smart eyes. I think that’s great. Please stop devaluing yourselves. As I already wrote above, this happens to nearly every non-expert building a house for the first time. Moreover, building conditions, like many other things, unfortunately have changed so much that the building experiences of parents and grandparents can no longer help.
Just award the trades yourselves, or start cutting.
I would advise the thread starters against awarding the trades themselves. I assume that the same will happen again as with the architect. Cutting, yes, if the money isn’t there, which I still don’t understand.