So regarding the sealing, our architect basically told us on site (when we had "complained" a bit about the poor execution of the adhesive tapes): There are several ways to achieve the goal. There is not just "the one right way."
With us, it is similar. The tape on the outside is certainly justified; it just has to ensure permanent! driving rain tightness. If it is currently coming off the masonry a bit, that seems to be normal. Before plastering, it will definitely be pressed on, then a mesh corner will be applied, and then it will be plastered (at least that’s how I understood it).
The middle can certainly be filled with foam (as insulation), it is nicer (as done with our doors) to have a frame-wide compressible tape which then also performs the inner sealing (airtightness or separation between the indoor and outdoor climate) as an additional function for insulation.
Inside, suitable sealing tape can also be used. This can be glued onto the frame beforehand, then the window installed, tape folded over, glued on inside and outside (as with us). Or one glues sealing tape onto! the frame afterwards (after insulation has been installed inside). Here you obviously have to work carefully so that the reveal can be worked on correctly without the sealing tape being visible. I assume that is the only way to rework at our place without removing the windows again (and that certainly will not happen, as even I consider that disproportionate).
I hope I have understood and conveyed everything correctly. The drawing below at least shows the rough (correct) scheme.