Thanks!
So, a heat pump would generally be better than, for example, gas, but gas can also be quiet, and not every heat pump is automatically quiet? Got it! ;)
I was in a show house from Viebrockhaus, and there was a heat pump inside that doesn’t need an outdoor unit. I actually didn’t hear the heat pump, except in the utility room, and even there only very quietly. But usually, you hear such things much better when you’re alone, and not when someone is standing next to you asking expectantly, "So? Do you hear anything?" :D
Not all noises are equally bad either. Strangely, I find the sound of a dishwasher calming, whereas a loud refrigerator annoys me (I once had one that I could hear through a closed door from 10 meters away). So, I still don’t know whether a heating noise would bother me at all, but if it does, it would be really bad. I’m not good at tuning such things out.