And again he is wrong - I already know that you are doing it deliberately now, but please stop with the talk.
KfW55 per se says very little.
Architecture, individual needs in room temperatures, basement, heated area, domestic hot water demand, that is simply ignored.
By the way, I calculated a KfW56 house... but what good is the value to you now if it doesn't fit your picture?
Is your house already built?