This is beyond belief, what I don’t understand here:
According to the pictures, the house stands alone in an open field, but according to the site plan, it is in a building gap that only comes about by demolishing the neighboring building; so half of the plot’s width would then remain free???
The design is from you "with hints from the architect," who is now also commissioned. His designs don’t convince you, which however does not make it any more helpful not to show them to us either.
The pitched roof is supposed to be more expensive due to a missing concrete ceiling; here I also cannot follow.
The whole place is supposed to become 190 + 55 sqm, so 245 sqm. Subtracting the layman planning surcharge, it will probably be about 40 sqm smaller with a professional and then cost about 615 k.
What did you expect by starting the planning right away with a double mistake (drawing first, then planning; and creatively infecting/contaminating the architect with a self-design)?
I find the architect and tendering good, but the presetting on single contracts is unfortunate, and considerations about façade design are way too early. You yourself see what the nowadays technically outdated chimney looks like as a skyscraper—at least this advantage should the visualization at least have.
I would still advise you: crumple up all that nonsense, first put in a resting phase before restarting to gain distance and clear your mind, before you change the architect (because unfortunately you have "contaminated" him), and then properly start with a new architect with "Module A" (see: "A house-building roadmap, also for you: the HOAI phase model!"); after that, you go again into the usual resting phase (possibly also without a decision being made insofar as the site more or less “dictates” a stony basement).
The forum community will be happy if you also show the designs that don’t appeal to you—at least the plot with contour lines or measuring points.