Hello Sebastian,
how the structure of a roof should look depends on one hand on the preferences of the builder himself and on the other hand on the associated costs. If the builder is more ecologically oriented, a different structure is chosen (possibly Isofloc as insulation) than if he prefers a cost-effective solution. Another possibility would be the above-rafter insulation with a continuous insulation layer and visible rafters on the inside, which is also more expensive than the standard solution.
For self-construction, I would most likely recommend a standard solution that is relatively easy to install and promises a high insulation value. This structure has also been used by most of my builders. The structure from outside to inside:
1. Roof tiles, better than concrete roof tiles
2. Roof battens 3/5
3. Counter battens 3/5
4. Diffusion-open underlay membrane
5. Rafters according to statics (usually 8/16) with glass wool or mineral wool insulation in between, e.g., 16.0 cm clamp fleece
6. Cross battens 4/6 with 4.0 cm insulation in between
7. Vapor barrier foil, here it is urgent to ensure tightness between each other and to all adjacent components (sealing)! Otherwise, there is a risk of mold formation.
8. Rafter battens 2.4/4.8 cm or similar as support battens for
9. Gypsum board 1.25 cm
10. Wallpaper of your choice
This roofing structure has an insulation thickness of 20.0 cm. If possible, equip roof windows on the south side with a roller shutter. In the area of the collar beams/clamps, rough-sawn boards with a thickness of 2.2 cm are installed instead of items 1-4.
If you go to your building materials dealer with this information and can specify the area to be produced, he will certainly be able to give you a concrete offer for the materials to be supplied. Then you will definitely know how much the material will cost.
Hopefully, this has helped you enough.