Mix red and white stones?

Well, it's also your own fault. The advice still comes anyway. With my children, I say at some point that they know where the tap is and can fill the glass themselves, and then I stop doing it. And suddenly they can do it on their own.

Well, but you have only yourselves to blame. The advice still comes anyway. With my children, I eventually say that they know where the tap is and can fill the glass themselves, and then I don’t do it anymore. And suddenly they can do it on their own.

But the comparison is flawed. If no one answers here, the original poster cannot suddenly build a house because of that.

Imagine your children come to you and ask why no juice comes out of the tap and what your professional advice would be. Would you even accept the question in that form?