House construction planned for the future, how best to proceed in the Marburg area

He has now realized that himself.

I currently have such a case in my circle of acquaintances. He persuaded her to buy a house in the countryside, she, as a city child, found no connection, no sushi bar, no yoga class, 30 km drive every day to her part-time job, became unhappy, separation and moving back to the city with their son. He now has mortgage payments plus alimony to deal with - bad luck.

Just because you’re not yet in agreement at the end of your twenties, that’s not a drama. But at least both should be aware that without a viable compromise, which both unconditionally support, things won’t progress in other future matters either.

Very sensible comment. I neither dug up the topic again a few weeks ago, nor can anyone afford to doubt relationships where they have no clue at all...

The "Bänger" likes to do that, most just ignore it. You can also mute people, just a tip :)

The "banger" likes to do that, most just ignore it. You can also mute people, just a tip :)

Yes, because many cannot handle the truth. I myself started in sales. The pressure and stress ruin a lot. At the latest when you realize "oops, I didn't mean it that way, only him." Such a project must take place on a healthy basis of trust

Yes, because many people can't handle the truth. I myself started in sales. The pressure and stress destroy a lot. At the latest when you realize "oops, I didn’t mean it that way, just you." Such a project must take place on a healthy basis of trust.

That’s probably true, but the way you often talk to people has nothing to do with "not handling the truth" anymore. Other people’s relationships are none of your business. The original poster has to decide that for themselves.

That's probably true, but the way you often talk to people has nothing to do with "not being able to handle the truth" anymore. Other people's relationships are none of your business. The original poster has to decide that for themselves.

How do I talk to them? Directly and honestly without being offensive. Anyone who wants a rosy opinion should find a commission-hungry advisor. Definitely a mediator and later also gladly a lawyer.

How do I talk to them? Directly and honestly without becoming offensive. If someone wants a rose-colored opinion, they should find a commission-hungry advisor. Definitely a mediator, later also gladly a lawyer

That is a matter of opinion.