Hello, I thank everyone here for the contributions so far. (Hier fehlt so ein Danke-Blümchen-Smiley.)
In any case, I will diligently search through the classifieds in due time.
The nice thing about the garden is that it gradually grows and constantly changes.
The bad thing about the garden is that it gradually grows... and looks bare at the beginning.
For me, the most important function of the garden is that it wraps around the house like a protective hand. I want to become a bit less visible, otherwise I find it hard to feel secure.
Our house somehow looks "naked" like that, it could visually be wrapped up a bit.
And the growing-in takes so much time. :-(
On the west side of the garden, I plan a small kitchen garden. I will just experiment there, and it will then show how I manage it and how big it will become.
I think there are simply easier (onions, parsley) and more demanding (peppers, beans) vegetables? I will choose cleverly...
On the south border, I would like berry bushes in the long run that, in my opinion, require little work. Possibly an apple tree, there are nowadays dwarf varieties and I think that will also require little work.
In the southwest, I would like a large tree for privacy and emotional reasons; I simply wish for a tree. I am gladly willing to sacrifice a lot of space and a bit of shade can also be good. I thought of a willow. It has the advantage that any amateur can prune it wildly as they see fit if it grows too big; it’s impossible to kill.
In the worst case, cut off the top, it will shoot out again. It might look a bit strange, but then I finally have an eye-catcher in the garden.
And otherwise, I just want a piece of green nature where one might see a bird. I don’t need geometric beds and cone-shaped bushes. I will tolerate daisies and moss. Tulip bulbs here and there in the ground and left to themselves.
I can also just try the slabs like that for now. If they really sink, then I will just have to compact underneath and add gravel and such.
Regards