Noise assessments should always be taken with caution. I would be very careful with a fourfold increase (every 3 dB increase corresponds to a doubling of the noise) of the allowed limit. On top of that, measured at night. Then I don’t even want to know the daytime values, which are allowed to be higher. With noise barriers (possible above the property due to a 3m height difference, so the noise passes over your property) and soundproof windows + controlled residential ventilation for nighttime, you should be able to keep the interior of the house quiet. It will be louder when sitting comfortably outside – you have to decide how often you want to sit "in peace" outside,...