Yes, that's true, I noticed that too. The desire to have children takes priority, which is why there is only such a small income. It would be crazy otherwise. I also want to be able to provide something for my child and not always have to say no because you can't afford it.
Our financer got back to us with a 10-year fixed interest rate. 940 euros per month sounds fantastic, but afterwards there are still over 230,000 euros of debt left. That's crazy. He also mentioned a building savings contract (probably for the next commission), but I simply can't afford that during parental leave.
Thanks again for your honest words.