Build or buy a house? Children already 13/15 years old...

2019-04-02 12:51:06

Forget that quickly. You can be lucky or unlucky. Your children will eventually have their own lives with their own problems. Where that is, is unknown. There is also a certain superficiality. The grandpa who lives in another house is quickly out of sight and out of mind. I had to learn that lesson before I was even 20. Blood is worthless. Look around you with open eyes. For many, one child visits even if there are 2, 3, or 4. Grandchildren even less. What is one visit a week or 10 minutes daily for the support stockings? Do you think there are only childless people in nursing homes who hope for visits week after week?

2019-04-02 13:05:11

Forget that quickly. You can be lucky or unlucky.
Your children eventually have their own lives with their own problems. Where that is, is unknown.
There is also a certain superficiality. The grandpa who lives in another house is quickly out of sight and out of mind.
I had to learn this lesson before I was even 20.
Blood is worthless.

Look around with open eyes.
For many, there is only 1 child even if there are 2, 3, or 4.
Even fewer grandchildren.
What is once a week a visit or daily 10 minutes for the support stockings?
Do you think only childless people in nursing homes hope for visits week after week?

Even enmities can arise, but that is not what I mean or it should not be an exclusion criterion.

The grandpa who is lost out of sight, selfishness is to blame for that.

2019-04-02 13:43:45

Answer: 90% said "loneliness"

Many of the lonely people nowadays have children. And this thought makes one lonelier than the fact of not having children.

2019-04-02 13:49:05

Many of the lonely people nowadays have children. And this thought makes one lonelier than the fact of not having children.

so the logical/safe decision = a pet :-)... better safe than sorry :D

2019-04-02 14:11:59

so the logical/safe decision = a pet :)...better safe than sorry :D

I don't know what you mean. I have nothing to do with pets. If you mean someone else, please quote them, not me, at least not in a context that has nothing to do with me.

2019-04-02 14:49:10

Just plan the house right away with a separate apartment for the children. I know many who live in the same house as their parents but in two separate areas. And if the children ever move out, you can rent out the apartment and have a nice pension.

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