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In principle, I don’t entirely disagree with you.
I just think, provided one is aware of the scope of such a project, it should still work without any worries, since there is a very good income.
The OP just has to be clear whether he really wants this & is willing to make cuts.
Because living large won’t work anymore.
As already mentioned, the consumer loans must go!
I think that at 34-35 years old, you are not too old to save yet.
Look at it this way, the last few years have been lived well & now one has come to the realization that an owner-occupied property is the right thing.
With that income, the missing equity can certainly be compensated.
Whether it will be a sensible financing arrangement is another matter.
There are certainly better constellations...
Best regards