Consider it justified. I have dealt with this topic myself for a long time. Heat protection has absolutely nothing to do with the vapor barrier...
In terms of airtightness, it is rather correct, and yes, you can design a construction so that it is less prone to mold. But that is not always that simple, especially not for non-experts. You also don’t necessarily choose the structure just so you can be sloppy with the vapor-retarding layer.
I think it is not possible for a vapor barrier to be 100% airtight. In my opinion, 100% is practically not achievable, hardly (durably) doable, BUT the whole thing must be almost 100% airtight. Any carelessness can be expensive later. The airtightness layer MUST be created as perfectly as possible. Better too meticulous than too sloppy.
How big a leak can be and what size is still acceptable cannot really be answered. It depends entirely on the room conditions.
I would not risk anything.