Taking over half of the house after separation - questions about options

A typical case - with separation, many things become unstable and house of cards collapse.

Every sale triggers costs and property taxes. Therefore, consider whether father has to buy?

Probably this is the wrong forum, in the separation FAQ there would be more hints.

Questions to clarify:

1. what is the impact on alimony?
2. can you rent out partial areas?
3. can economic ownership be argued?

A typical case – with separation, many things become unstable and houses of cards collapse.

Every sale incurs costs and property taxes. Therefore, consider whether the father has to buy?

This is probably the wrong forum; there would be more advice in the separation FAQ.

Questions to clarify:

1. What is the effect on maintenance?
2. Can you rent out parts of the property?
3. Can economic ownership be argued?

Regarding the purchase from my father, I see no other possibility? Or how can this be avoided?

1. We are not married. Therefore, no maintenance.
2. Yes and no. It is a semi-detached house.
3. How should I understand that?

Thanks & regards

Well, if you can't come to a reasonable (!) agreement (the original poster didn't mention anything about the emotional side), in the worst case it leads to a sale and both end up as losers. One should keep that in mind and at least try an emotionless, sensible, and "fair" solution before more debts come on top of the house and several consumer loans and your own financial situation gets increasingly tight.

In a sale, unfortunately, we would not come out as losers, that is the problem, since the house has appreciated a lot in value.
She paid €25,000 to my ex-wife and €8,000 to me (without contract etc.), I then used the money to buy out my ex-wife for the post-marital maintenance. Additionally, she paid about €9,000 in property transfer tax. In a sale, she would break even; if I can hold half, then she would be satisfied with €25,000.

The woman seems very sensible - I would keep her!

Would it help to have the house appraised by an expert so that the bank recognizes the current value and sees an appropriate security?

The woman seems very sensible - I would keep her!

Yes, I would have kept her too