Good evening Murmelstein,
first of all, I am keeping my fingers crossed for your new project.
Now I will address your possible financing:
Your net income is €8,000 (I am deliberately leaving out the bonus payments; this is a buffer that I would not include in the financing if I were you.
As a rule, banks deduct 40% of your income (depending on the bank, either a percentage value is applied to the total income or standard household costs per person and child are used; since you also have insurances etc., the 40% fits quite well).
€8,618.00 Net income including child benefits
./. €3,447.20 Household cost flat rate
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€5,170.80 Subtotal
./. €300.00 Private health insurance (PKV)
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€4,870.80 Subtotal
./. €650.00 Loan installments including €400 car loan
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€4,220.80 Subtotal
./. €1,600.00 Loan installment existing house
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€2,620.80 Subtotal
./. €500.00 Operating costs new property (€2.5 per square meter)
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€2,120.80 Subtotal
./. €2,456.25 (fictitious installment of new financing with an assumed loan amount of €655,000 and an annuity of 4.5 percent)
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- €335.45
+ €1,600.00 (discontinuation of installment existing financing)
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€1,264.55
./. €166.66 (bridge financing of €50,000 with a fictitious rate of 4% - only needed until the existing property is sold)
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€1,097.88 Surplus until the house is sold and the bridge financing lapses
Following comment regarding your planned house sale: Since you have chosen a model in which you do not repay anything on your previous financing (only contributions into the building savings contract), the prepayment penalty will be correspondingly high.
I would structure your financing as follows:
Bridge financing of your existing property with the planned extra proceeds of €50,000 and finance the full amount of €655,000 at one bank. To what extent KfW loans or state promotional loans can and should be integrated I cannot conclusively assess based on the information provided so far.
Regarding your "hope" that the previous financing bank will be "lenient" with the prepayment penalty, unfortunately, I cannot confirm this based on my experience. However, I am keeping my fingers crossed that it will be different for you.
If you have any further questions, I am happy to assist you.
Best regards