@ Veltins
So I probably guessed correctly regarding your current favorite.
You can find a lot of information about the Nibe on the net; especially from builders of your potential building partner.
A fireplace is "not worth it," it is something for personal well-being; although there are already smaller fireplaces around 3 kW. Procuring wood, cleaning repeatedly, a decision that no one can take away from you. Save heating costs because of it? No, unless you get the wood for free.
Thinking about "other" alternatives for heat generation is unnecessary if you want to sign with the provider; of course only if I guessed correctly.
Rhenish greetings from the road
Building expert