1. The bank doesn't have to do anything for the old loan if it doesn't want to. You are merely an applicant.
2. Normally, you can't "extend" the old loan without VE, because the bank terminates an existing refinancing and enters into a new one ==> thus a loss occurs that you have to pay. However, since the bank only changes the refinancing and continues to earn a margin, the loss is lower than with a complete payoff.
3. Either way, you have the loan, either alone or together with the new financing. The question is what it's worth to you to extend the term.
4. If you should repay the old loan and reapply together with the new financing (which can then also be higher than T€ 60, so that you can deduct more interest), you could split the loan - one part for rental, one part for owner-occupancy. By the way, you can claim the VE as advertising expenses for tax purposes.