I would like to explain or rather clarify:
>> Regarding study and work situation:
I am neither a career beginner nor have I dropped out of my studies (how do you even come up with that ;) )
I have been continuously working since I was 16. On the side, I financed myself and completed my high school diploma at an evening school within one year. Afterwards, also on the side, I completed a 3-year part-time study program with Bafög support. Since then, I have been permanently employed in a secure company for about 3 years and absolutely satisfied. (I paid back my Bafög early myself to get the good discounts.) I basically want to stay in the region and actually have no plans to advance further career-wise. The income seems relatively low, but it is not bad for this region.
>> Regarding the current house:
The house is currently in family ownership. However, I rent it. It is agreed that the person who takes it over/renovates it will essentially get it completely for €1.
To be honest, the house in its current state is a money pit. For years, we (family and I) have been putting a lot of money and especially time into it... if you add it all up, you could already have a new house. But that also means I’m used to coming home from work and building until the evening.
If you say 170k with €1,700 is too ambitious, then those are exactly the honest opinions I want to hear.
So, thank you very much already. Maybe we just have to accept that and look for alternatives.