Financing commitment at the current time

Hello everyone,
I would be interested to know at which bank you have received approval in the last 4 weeks and where it is currently difficult.
The background is that we are currently having the greatest difficulties. We have a net monthly income of €5,500 plus child benefit for 4 children and already own property, which is expected to be sold for €420k. I am currently not working, I am a qualified nurse and could theoretically start several jobs tomorrow.
After the property sale, we will have equity of around €120k. We live quite minimally, have no car, at most go to the campsite occasionally, and need €1,500 monthly for living expenses for six people. The first rejection came from our house bank because they calculate horrendous flat rates for 6 people and “no car” is not even considered there. Now we ended up at Deutsche Bank through a financial advisor; they are so nervous currently that they won’t give approval without a purchase contract for the existing property—and this is a catch-22—because we can hardly sell our home before we can be sure to finance the new house... We submitted all necessary documents in record time except for this purchase contract. It is really exhausting. Is anyone else in the same situation? Any tips? Both our realtor and the financial advisor believe that we wouldn’t have had this drama 8 weeks ago. The banks are probably shaking in fear of the ECB’s interest rate hike planned for July.

Well, first of all, it would be interesting to know how much and what exactly is supposed to be financed. Because without the loan amount, it's hard to assess. Furthermore, I don't really think the banks are trembling. They are just summarizing the current situation. The income of 6 people and the liabilities of probably still €300,000?! Plus only one income. Those are just the facts. It's quite understandable that it gets declined.

Nimm doch eine Stelle an die gut bezahlt wird

Mein „ungenutztes“ Einkommen ist für die Banken eher ein Vorteil.

Nimm doch eine Stelle an die gut bezahlt wird und kündige wieder nach der Finanzierung.

Sowohl unser Makler als auch der Finanzberater sind der Meinung, dass wir dieses Theater vor 8 Wochen so nicht gehabt hätten.