Finance Single-family house - Feasibility?

TV-L E9 ... depends on the level... at the age of 32 one is probably not yet at the final level (Level 4), rather at Level 2 or 3. The table is with me at work, I could also quickly google it, but it probably matches the numbers from [Knallkörper].

Cheese, this is about the EG 9b of the TVöD! Final level (6) ~ 4,100 EUR gross ~ 2,500 EUR net (Stkl. 1)

We've known each other for quite a long time now, haven't we? By the way, I have TVöD-S E9b level 4 (Stkl. 3). One house, four children, and no second salary E13. If we had it, we could save it.

But then it doesn't work out with the 4100 net.

No, it's more like 2400€ net. Maybe tox will reveal other sources of income. I can hardly imagine 2400€ for four people with a house, the hobby in the garage, etc. without subsidies from grandpa, transfer payments, etc. I also consider us to be rather frugal.

2480 euros net + 2x Christmas night or holiday pay.

My wife also has a 430 euro side job, but the money is completely saved.

No other significant sources of income exist, unless you count 200 EUR interest, 400 euros electricity feed-in, and 300 euros for gifts (all per year).