Hello!
In my opinion, your girlfriend should definitely refuse the gift, because it is not a gift but a burden. Securing the house from the State’s claim no longer works anyway, because there is no (residual) value to secure. A house with a market value of 60,000€ and encumbered with 70,000€ has a value of -10,000€, meaning in case of emergency, the State and the bank can argue over who incurs less loss.
On top of that comes the right of residence, which would also have to be deducted from the 60,000€, meaning there is even less value that could be transferred to the children. In addition, the loans are tied to the house, which means if the loans are to be paid off without collateral from the parents’ current salary, the link between the loan and the house would have to be lifted, which a) costs additional money and b) leads to a higher interest rate on the remaining 70,000€.
Then the house would be worth about 60,000€ minus the right of residence, which, depending on the parents’ age (Google "usufruct" and "mortality table"!) as already described, can also approach €0. If the house is also lived in for 20 more years without anything being done to it, the value decreases as well, so roughly about 20,000€ would have to be spent on demolition to "reveal" the value of the freely tradable land again. However, the land value cannot be high if the property including the house is currently valued at 60,000€, ergo: with three heirs, there are - if the data is as stated here - more costs than benefits/value left, no matter how you look at it.
Best regards Dirk Grafe