1.4mm joints are just too little in my opinion, normally they are more like 2cm and up. You can already see in the picture how the mortar between the bricks is touching. That's definitely not normal, I also have direct neighbors with separate walls, and you can't hear anything except the staircase mentioned here at night. There was definitely shoddy work done on your side. If I were you, I would close the chapter with the house and move out; arguing with the landlord also makes little sense in my opinion, the hassle is greater than the possible gain.