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2016-03-03 11:06:40
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There is absolutely nothing against inviting your neighbor, even this one, for a beer! Nevertheless, in my opinion, it is not up to eisbaer_oz to smooth things over. This should be done by his neighbor if he cares about a reasonable relationship. If one is aware of this, one may still gladly leave gifts at the neighbor’s door (the smarter one gives in) out of gratitude that he finally refrains from storing his stuff on eisbaer_oz's property.
Sorry, I see and read this differently. The original poster does not want a broken neighborhood relationship. However, you get one quickly with a certain type of person who handles interactions carelessly but reacts very roughly to letters where a deadline or a warning is perceived as a threat. These types of people may be rather simple-minded; perhaps unhealthy selfishness or thoughtlessness is the reason they then lick their wounds offended. One must approach such people as a wise fellow, otherwise, you have them as an enemy, which TE probably does not want.