Fill up the plot - we are doing it now, neighbor is waiting

That already sounds very childish! However, the statement from the new neighbor is also cheeky. I would simply fill up completely and then let the fill naturally slope down on the two sides of your property first. With a 45-degree angle, that might result in about 1m width later... Then you are flexible and can set the L-bricks afterwards if necessary or just fill up against your neighbor after sufficient discussions.

100% agree with you. We only placed L-bricks in front of the front door on the east side because we wanted to pave there... The neighbor is also not sure what he wants... so L-bricks so I don’t have to wait 2 years to properly get into my house... we had the rest leveled towards him... either he fills up now like we did, then we have no costs at all, or he does not fill up, then I will set L-bricks sometime.... On the other side of the house we shared everything because on half of it we filled up higher than the neighbor and on the other half he would have had to do something...

This is kindergarten from both sides – are you builders or three-year-olds now? Sensible is to not make any steps at the borders at all, to pile up as little as possible and to compact together across borders. Why builders are messing around with L-bricks like bad window installers with construction foam, one shouldn’t have to understand as an adult. Peace!

This is nonsense and far too generalized. But I can imagine what you mean.

Whenever you orient yourself towards others, you make yourself dependent. If it becomes your goal that the neighbor participates, you lose sight of your goal of living well. Gather yourself, be aware of your priorities, develop a strategy and follow it. By the way, that also constitutes a good negotiating position. And then something happens.

I would also first mound up with a slope.

I experience it over and over again. One of our neighbors also just sits it out and waits until we react or pay... Be it when mounding up (fortunately only 40-50cm on the lawn area), with the fence, etc.

I would also start by sloping the mound. I keep experiencing this. One of our neighbors also sits it out and waits until we react or pay... Whether it's with the mound (fortunately only 40-50cm on the lawn area), with the fence, etc.

I think we have the same neighbor

I think we have the same neighbor

Funny, the two live house to house and complain about each other here...;):D