Great that one of the children could already practice being the boss with a child from the anteroom, hehe.
But the 120m2 on the upper floor are to be used completely. Bedroom, dressing room, bathroom, 3 children's rooms and children's bathroom
Yes, on the upper floor instead of the current attic already - but the new attic above the then upper floor is not supposed to be used as living space as well?
With the new information, the house is becoming a money pit that will be more expensive than a new build...
I don't have enough information yet to make such judgments.
I would seriously consider a demolition.
At least rather a partial demolition than an additional storey.
Somehow I have the feeling that the renovation is becoming more and more expensive the more information comes in...
Especially qualitatively, I see too little clearly. Ground floor, basement/underground floor, plot/building envelope ... and of course pictures of the condition (outside & inside).