For everything listed above, the offerings from the major players in the smartphone market are sufficient. Apple HomeKit could cover all of this if you pay attention to HomeKit compatibility when selecting the roller shutter drives. It probably works with Alexa as well, but I have no experience with that.
- Roller shutters, e.g., with Homee or Fibaro for direct installation or retrofitting on conventional switches.
- Philips Hue via HueBridge in HomeKit.
- Various providers for door/window contacts (e.g., Eve)
- Various doorbell systems such as Netatmo or Doorbird available
- HomePod as a speaker for internet radio or Apple Music
Everything else (sockets, motion detectors, smoke detectors, etc.) is available in electronics stores for purchase and retrofitting.
In the Home app, you can then set the desired rules and automations. Another iPad mounted on the wall as a control center means the whole thing also works when you are outside the home network.