Honestly, I find this "stinginess is cool" mentality pretty disgusting.
I go to an intermediary because they can conveniently provide me with several offers from different providers without me having to take care of it, and then I choose the one that suits me best.
But then I want to go directly to the provider and cheat the intermediary out of their commission to save a few euros.
There you go: if you want to save that, you have to do the hard work and contact all possible (and impossible) providers directly. Otherwise, I find it quite right that you then get listed with the intermediary.
This kind of attitude just annoys me. Just like the people who get long and detailed advice in a specialist store and then order online for 2.50€ cheaper.