Why do you call me stupid?
Now you're starting like that too: he did not
call you stupid, he said that it is a
stupid sentence. Even intelligent people can write stupid sentences, just to mention that. I do not mean that the sentence is stupid.
Have you considered the fine difference between "planning 4 children" and "having 4 children"?
I think that if you have or plan 4 children and have to manage with the budget of a house, the costs must be calculated very precisely in a house design. In my opinion, the communal area should be somewhat larger. You need a bit more kitchen space for more food and dishes, but also sufficiently cozy seating areas in the common area. It makes a difference whether 1 toddler spreads out in the open space or 3-4 do. And then the children's rooms are somewhat smaller. They seek each other out or avoid each other as they grow older. It's not like they all think the same and get along wonderfully like in a soap opera or on the Waltons. And then it’s no shame if you don’t plan space for every child’s home organ, drum set, or Carrera track in the room, but adjust the size of the children’s room accordingly. Regarding my coat rack picture in #28: Funny! It shows a coat rack for 4 people, but only the seasonal wardrobe – what the family uses over the weeks. The picture is presented without judgment. I post it because the OP talks about coat hooks and wants to forgo a wardrobe. A user here addresses what is suggested to him. He questions "terrible," although the photo was simply posted without impression. You can imagine what that means for the coat rack.