Hi,
I think the question about the right wall thickness has already been discussed 936 times here. And somehow, you always come to the conclusion that this question cannot be answered generally. It depends on your requirements.
The material plays a big role --> [Kalksandstein], [Porenbeton], [Poroton], wood. All these materials meet different requirements in various ways. Keyword sound insulation, thermal insulation, statics.
Then your building must be considered as a whole. The interaction between the building construction and the plant engineering must fit perfectly together.
As a general rule, one can only say that it makes sense to design the building envelope so that not much energy needs to be generated to keep your place warm.
Cheers