We have been living in a Schwörer house Kfw 70 with ventilation + ventilation heating for two years. I agree with you that I was also skeptical at the beginning about whether and how it works – especially because of electricity consumption and the bad reputation of "electric heating." Now, after 2 years, I am satisfied with the system; at first, it was difficult to find the right settings for comfortable warmth + low consumption, but that simply requires experience over time.
Overall, you first have to get used to the certain sluggishness of the system (in winter, the heat pump runs 24/7, but the auxiliary heaters in each room very sparingly). Above all, you quickly have to say goodbye to the decades-ingrained habit of "come home, room cold, turn on heater, room gets warm," otherwise it becomes a money pit. The system works differently here than simply turning up normal radiators. The orientation of the house (for us, southwest) as well as large windows in the living room are also important so that we can still benefit from the winter sun.
As an additional "quick solution" if we want more heat quickly, we still have a wood stove in the living room. Since we live in a village, wood is not a problem. Our average temperature in winter is about 21–23 degrees. Since the system is relatively straightforward, there are almost no parts that need maintenance. Only the air filters of the ventilation need to be replaced.
In the future, it is planned to expand the house with a photovoltaic system so that ideally, especially in winter on sunny days, we can use our own electricity directly for heating. If by then energy storage has progressed further, that would also be worth considering. This is where the advantage of electric heating over water-based systems comes into play – I can feed the generated energy directly into the house network without detours and convert it into heat.
All in all, for me, the often-invoked ghost of the ultra-evil electric heating has lost its terror – last year, we consumed about 5500 kWh for hot water, ventilation, and heating.